If the past couple of years has done anything, it is to teach people to live on their own terms, but, taking control of your life and living authentically is not always easy. Taking back control can feel overwhelming and can take a significant leap out of your comfort zone. But, taking back control of your life and feeling in charge of your destiny is well worth it and will enhance your life in many ways. If this all sounds a little overwhelming, then remember that you do not need to do everything at once. Taking small steps towards creating a life you love and feeling in charge of your destiny is incredibly effective, and you can start immediately. Here are some tips to help you take control of your life and feel better:
Be Open to Change
Stepping outside your comfort zone can be challenging. But, when you venture outside your usual way of doing things, you may find lots of new and exciting opportunities. Making yourself open to change paves the way for many new experiences and chances to try new things. This type of change can enhance your life in so many positive ways. From building your confidence and resilience to meeting new people and making more friends, there is much to be gained from stepping outside your comfort zone and being open to change.
Let Go of Other People’s Expectations
Do you often find yourself justifying your choices and decisions? If so, it is easy to fall into this habit and forget that it is not necessary. Your choices belong to you, and you do not need to explain your reasons unless you want to. Starting a family is one aspect of life that causes many women to feel the weight of other people’s expectations. Having people constantly ask you when you are planning to have kids can be frustrating, especially if you have already decided not to have a family. Just remember, this is a decision that belongs to you and your partner. If your partner has decided to have a Vasectomy because neither of you wants kids, then you do not need to justify that choice to anyone else. Letting go of the need to explain yourself and feeling under the pressure of other people’s expectations is a liberating experience and feels great.
Stop Pleasing Others
While letting go of other people’s expectations of you and what you should be doing with your life is empowering, you can take this a step further by being comfortable with yourself and not needing to please others. People-pleasing may feel like the polite thing to do, but it is often at the expense of your happiness and wellbeing. Treating others with compassion and kindness is positive, but always sacrificing your own needs and neglecting your self-care is not good. Prioritising yourself and taking back control will make you feel much better and could be easier than you think.
Team TDP x